It occurs to me that burying someone in a casket is incredibly wasteful.
It occurs to me that burying someone in a casket is incredibly wasteful.
I will admit…I don’t understand (yet) all of the (Man) City fallout. Honestly, I don’t even know what the 115 charges were.
During the May 28, 2026 Harvard commencement address, senior speaker Noah Eckstein said this:
Understanding is difficult. It takes effort. My grandfathers knew that, but they chose to try anyway. I want to leave you all with one simple practice. Whenever you meet someone you disagree with, stay your case, yes, stand up for what you believe, but also ask the other person about their beliefs. Ask them how they got there. Listen like you might be wrong. That’s not a weakness or betrayal of your own ideals. That is the hardest and most important thing you can do in a world that is constantly telling you, “pick a side”.
I can’t even tell you how much I love that line. I do my best to live this philosophy every single day. And so far, it hasn’t let me down.
The transcript of his entire speech can be found here.
I came across this reel on Instagram this morning, and it spoke to me:
I think we’ve completely lost shame. And I genuinely find that terrifying, because there used to be shame. There used to be things you simply didn’t do because they were shameful. Not illegal, not because you’d necessarily get caught or get punished for them. You just had enough shame not to do them. There are ways you didn’t behave in public and things you didn’t say about people and things you didn’t expose about your family and things you simply wouldn’t do for attention. There were certain lines where something inside you went, “No, I’d be ashamed of myself.” And that mattered.
Because today I genuinely don’t know if that line exists anymore. We’ve become obsessed with this idea that nothing should embarrass us, and nothing should make us feel ashamed, and no one gets to judge us, right? The whole “I don’t care what anyone thinks“. Ok, but what happens when nothing is shameful anymore? What happens when there’s nothing you wouldn’t do because you’d be too ashamed to do it? I think that’s terrifying, because here’s the reality: laws can tell you what you’re not allowed to do. Consequences can tell you what you might pay for doing. But shame used to tell you, even if no one ever finds out, I still wouldn’t do that. And I think we’ve completely underestimated how important that is.
And listen, I’m not talking about being ashamed of who you are. I’m talking about having enough dignity to know there are certain ways of behaving that are beneath you. We’ve spent so long teaching people don’t let anyone shame you. Fine. But maybe we went a bit too far. Because a world where people are ashamed simply for being themselves, that’s horrible. But a world where absolutely nothing is shameful anymore, where there’s no behavior beneath us, no line where embarrassed to cross, nothing we’d be scared for being known for. That’s an absolute nightmare.
Because if absolutely nothing is shameful anymore, then what exactly are we too ashamed to do? And if the answer is nothing, that’s the problem.
Hot take: The rise of influencer culture and (in a broader sense) social media itself are both the cause and serve as examples of this phenomenon. He’s right. It is a (huge) problem.
It’s not fall to me until the day that I wake up and the thermostat is below what I set the AC to be while we sleep.
Still not there yet.
I watched the newly-discovered video of Apple’s “Antenna-gate” press conference from 2010, on Gruber’s recommendation. For better or worse, I do miss Steve Jobs. It’s refreshing to hear him speak so candidly, and be so well-informed, about the topic at hand. A real throwback to a different time.
I’ve had my new iPhone 18 Pro for about 5 days. After having spent 2 years with an iPhone 16 Pro Max, I must say it’s refreshing to come back to the smaller size. It has great hand feel, as they say. I’m really enjoying it.
Thursday afternoon vibes
What if we had spent the hundreds of billions of dollars that we’ve already spent on AI…on healthcare?
Surely this has happened before…
If I were a soccer player in this day and age, I’d buy two pair of the same boot style, but different colors. And then wear them mismatched, switching the colors per foot with each match. Just because.
Remote controlled cars have come a long way since I was a kid.
I’m watching the Barcelona match this afternoon and they are playing Sevilla (in Sevilla). During the hydration break (don’t even get me started), the camera focuses in on the Sevilla huddle. The manager is talking to the team. And he is speaking to them in English.
This is a La Ligua match. In Spain. A match between two Spanish teams.
And he’s speaking English. Fascinating.
UPDATE: Turns out, in addition to Spanish players, they have players from France, Switzerland, Portugal, Brazil, Chile, Greece, Georgia, Nigeria, and Scotland.
I guess English is the most common denominator.
America is no longer a serious country.
There will come a day when I finish up a project/patch at 3:30 in the afternoon and NOT feel guilty about being “done” for the day. Sadly, that day is not this one.
Which Rude is it? – Chris Coyier
What do you order from this one person working at this coffeeshop at 4:00 AM?
You can’t help but be aware there are 20 people behind you in line and how there is one person taking orders and making the coffee drinks. Right?!
You could order a latte, which will take like 3 minutes to make. Or you could order a drip coffee in which this person hands you a cup in 3 seconds.
My brain is built such that I cannot possibly order something that will take this person a while to make. Like the words would be unable to come out of my mouth. Even if a cortado sounds really good right now, actually, I can’t do it. I can make an active choice to get a perfectly fine drip coffee and get this line moving and get all these strangers-yet-neighbors their coffees too, or I can cause a big ol’ hitch in the giddyup.
I hope I’m not trying to grandstand how perfect I am. I’m showcasing one part of how my brain works. I really don’t like inconvinencing other people.
I notice, because it seems like plenty of other people don’t.
This is such a me-coded post.
Watching tonight’s Inter Miami match and the commentator just said something that rings very true with me:
[Messi] doesn’t try to be the star of the show. He just naturally becomes the star of the show. And that’s what separates him from other greats, in my opinion.
Perfectly said.
I will never understand how people wear sweatshirts when it’s over 80 degrees outside. It’s 86 right now and there is a girl across the restaurant with a big sweatshirt on. I’m sweating just thinking about it.
In one of my company’s spam blocking summary emails, one of the blocked emails had the subject: “Who knows the dog’s name?”
Huh?!
I was today years old when I learned that U.S. astronaut Sally Ride was gay. Apparently, she had a 27-year relationship with her partner that she somehow kept hidden. My god, that’s a long time to keep the love of your life hidden from the world. I’m so glad she found that love, though.
This async/await thing is another one of those concepts that came in after I was already established in the industry, and I still haven’t quite wrapped my head around it. Am I behind? No doubt.
Jayme, Caroline, and I took a (really) quick trip down to Miami to see Messi and Inter Miami play Nashville. Given his recent retirement from international soccer, and everything that’s going on in his life, I wanted to make sure I saw him at home in Miami before he retires from soccer altogether.
I had two distinct feelings about our experience:
Anyway, it’s exactly the experience I wanted. I got to see Messi play (and score) at least one more time in person. And I got to visit Miami’s new stadium. Mission accomplished!
P.S. One thing the Benz has going for it is it’s indoors. I spent way too much brain power on worrying/planning for potential rain durting the game. That’s something I never have to worry about in Atlanta. (Also, I might be a bit spoiled 😄)
LeBron James partners with Polymarket
James posted a 14-second video to his X account showing him stepping off of an elevator after pressing the floor for “sports.” Other floors shown inside the elevator included politics, crypto, economy, culture, weather, esports and technology. The post’s caption reads: “Welcome to Polymarket HQ. Coming soon.”
What can go wrong?
(American) football is painful to watch at this point (because of the TV breaks and timeouts). Soccer has absolutely spoiled me.
Trump administration rule would end tax exemption for colleges that keep DEI | AP News
The Treasury Department proposed the change Thursday in a new regulation that, if made final, would kick in after May 2027. The rule is broadly aimed at ending any policies or programs that help students because of their race, and it specifically says such benefits in admissions, scholarships and facilities “would be incompatible” with the rule.
I’ll say again…fuck this administration.
Just going to drop this here. No reason.
Pulled out my high school freshman yearbook this afternoon. We were looking for a teacher’s name from back in the day. And I came across this gem of an artifact:
The two on the far left and far right are twins. Priceless! 🤣😂
I couldn’t have been more against George W. Bush in the late 1990s and 2000s. In the Trump world, I’ve become more sympathetic to him — as a human being, at least, if not on policy. He has also become quite a good painter.
While I share Manton’s feeling here, it’s only because Trump is so much worse.
Trump Is in Open Revolt Against the Constitution
Jamelle Bouie: ”The details of what is happening here are important — that’s why I laid them out — but it’s also important to step back and make a more fundamental point: the president of the United States is engaged in a conspiracy against the voting rights of the American people, which is to say that the president is engaged in a conspiracy against the Constitution itself. And this is part of a larger effort, spearheaded by the most fanatical of his allies, like Stephen Miller, to end the American republic and supplant it with an authoritarian regime in which President Trump holds sovereign authority over the whole nation.”
It is important to say, as well, that this is all out in the open, as plain as day.
repeated hair tearing-out noise
The last sentiment…same.
Getting older, some might say maturing, is realizing there is no fair. There’s only what is.
Yesterday, Messi announced his retirement from Argentina’s national team. So many posts flew around Instagram surrounding the news. These were a few of my favorites:
My kids keep asking me “why are you watching the Inter Miami games?”
This is why:
I just took my glasses off in an effort to hear someone better. God, I’m old.
Trump renames Lake Ontario ‘Lake America’ amid Canada trade war
President Donald Trump on Thursday signed an executive order that he said will “immediately” change the name of Lake Ontario to “Lake America.”
Trump’s attempt to rename the Great Lake, which straddles the U.S. northern border with Canada, came as a recent breakdown in trade talks between Washington and Ottawa has led to new retaliatory tariffs and a rapidly deteriorating relationship.
What a petty, small, piece-of-shit of a man he is.
I was today years old when I realized Alfred Molina, whom I’ve watched for years in so many movies (including the two Spider-Man movies), is English.
This is one of my favorite little products in quite a long time: Crosley Rondo Bluetooth Speaker
I listen to a lot of podcasts, and when it’s just me working in the office, I can sit this little guy up beside me and listen to my podcast friends like they’re on the radio in the early 1950’s. It’s fun, it’s nostalgic, and it was relatively cheap (at time of purchase) at around $25.
It’s just delightful!
Fired From the White House for Being Trans - The Atlantic
I had planned to spend the rest of my career serving my country at the CIA. This White House took my calling, but it will not take my pride, or tell me that I don’t belong, or that I must disappear. I once wrote under a pseudonym so I could keep serving. I write now in my own name for the same reason.
Julia.
Two things:
But please know this, and please take it to heart:
Help! My Favorite Athlete Is an Idiot.
“There’s an old Jerry Seinfeld joke about how pro athletes change teams so often that die-hard fans of a particular team — the Mets, in my case, and in his — are really just rooting for clothing. Maybe he was onto something. Just root for the jersey and not necessarily the nitwit wearing it.”
Love the club, not the person. In my experience, that’s really good advice.
Living Grief and the Mountains I Lost
With living grief, it’s the opposite: ritual is like death by a thousand paper cuts, as it only reminds you of what you’ve lost.
Interesting way of putting that.
While walking the dog, this one made me laugh.
I’m so sick of sports betting I could vomit.
In Purgatory Everyone Likes Crepes: My Time at a Greek All-Inclusive
She nods and resumes throwing a ball around with her children. She seems completely unaffected by thinking about her husband, which I think is actually the strange magic of the all-inclusive resort. It is a geopolitical anesthesia. The world is burning down, but here, the ice cream machine is still running.
What a fascinating statement.
Checks out.
🤦🏻♂️
Got this text message today:
Hi Lee, Dakota with Ed Voyles Kia here. During our August review, your vehicle came up and we need it! If you’re open, there’s an opportunity we’d love to walk you through with a quick visit. Reply YES to schedule your visit, or NO if you’ve recently upgraded. (Text STOP to opt out.)
I have not had possession of this vehicle since September 2020. Even then, it was a lease.
And, oh by the way, Kia Finance threatened to sue me over this same vehicle because of a lease turn-in dispute that lasted almost 3 years.
But hey, marketing lists never die!
No pressure.
I’ve included the chair for scale. My dog would choke on the size of these bugs!
I am shocked, SHOCKED, to learn there is gambling going on in this establishment!
It is oppressively hot outside today.
I don’t even like reading the news these days. All of it is tech companies (or tech-adjacent companies) spending more money than many countries will ever know on AI, what (else) is Trump fucking up as we speak, or natural disasters that kill people who had no real chance because of a lack of infrastructure from the start.
Very uplifting.
Has anyone ever just thought, when it comes to technology and how it’s negatively affecting people’s lives, and how people just don’t seem to give a shit, that we’re just…so fucked?
My source for the hopelessness this morning: META ORDERED TO PAY $942 MILLION IN NEW MEXICO CHILD-SAFETY LAWSUIT
Because I already know how this movie goes:
When all of that could be avoided if the fucking company implemented a simple set of requests that could make things better for their users. Especially their younger users. You know, because we (as adults) have responsibilities. But they won’t do them. Because…reasons.
(end rant)